Sunday, May 18, 2014

Five Months In

Today we had a baby shower at my home for my son and daughter-in-law. I don't have many big social events on the schedule for the next year (at least no weddings!) and I am grateful for that, because it's a little uncomfortable to be such a funny mix of colors. This is what 5 months looks like for me.

The bangs are probably more than half way there - just another 3 months or so (1 1/2 inches?) and they should be all gray. I think it will help to have the front of my face framed in gray, as it will give me a better sense of what the end result will be. It's still a little difficult to visualize.

I had lots of gray inspiration with me today. My daughter-in-law's mother, who is a year younger than I am, began her journey a couple of years ago. She is a beautiful woman, and she looks terrific with her natural color. I watched her transition with a combination of curiosity, envy, and panic. I didn't know how I would be able to handle it.

And two of my favorite 'Silver Sisters' were at the luncheon today. One is on the same timetable as I am, and also stopped coloring her hair last December. And the other has never colored her hair, and her look is awesome. Here we are.

My husband got a great shot of the 'undergrowth' as well. Because the top layer is so dark and thick, you can't really see how much gray is thriving underneath. So take a peek
Aaack! It's a little scary. Exciting, and scary. So that's my progress. The real trick to this, I think, is to keep your sense of humor, and surround yourself with people who love you no matter what kind of hair day you are having. I am lucky to have so many supportive friends and family members -- including my patient, if reluctant, husband, who has become my photographer for this chronicle. Thank you babe.